Tuesday, January 10, 2006

What I learned from Craigs List Today

here is the post I found today. Listen up Ladies....This man has something to say

WHAT WOMEN SHOULD KNOW ABOUT MEN!!!---Part I/Part II to follow
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pers-124214794@craigslist.orgDate: 2006-01-10, 12:22PM PSTLadies, There are things you should know about men that would help everyone in finding a mate. Evolutionary psychology (Darwin-stuff) recognizes that our species is about 6 million years old. For the longest period in the history of our species, men who chose to forego a single, female mate had more copies of their genes placed into the population. After all, if he stuck with one mate, there could only be one copy of his genes made every 9 months, while a polysexual man could place an unlimited number of copies of his genes into the population in a limited period of time. The opposite tended to be true with women. They would try to retain a mate to provide food and protection for them and their children. Those women who failed to do this tended to have their gene pool obliterated from the planet. I am not making this stuff up. It is simple natural selection. This is why men, as we know them today, tend to be more sex-driven than women. It is the product of millions of years of evolution and cannot be overcome by a relatively limited period of enlightened socialization and women's liberation. Here is the rub.....If you rely too much on men coming to you instead of meeting them half way, you will tend to encounter the polysexual men, since there are lots of their genes in the general population. If you only date them, you will find that they tend to "hit and run," as that is the nature of their genetic programming. You can try to fight it, but it is their nature. You will conclude, "all men are pigs," when, in fact, *you* are self-selecting the pigs by not being more active in pursuing less aggressive men. The good news is that there are still plenty of the other guys around. But, they are NOT the ones that will pursue you through hoops of fire. They will simply give up, as they are not driven in the same way as the polysexuals. Yet, they are the ones more likely to "stick around" when they find a nice woman. Consider this when you meet men or post on CL. There are women who post on CL saying almost nothing about themselves other than the obligatory, "I am attractive," but with a wish list for what they want in a man. This will attract the responses of the polysexual conquistadors, leaving the "nice guys" out of the loop.
this is in or around Cyberspace
no -- it's NOT ok to contact this poster with services or other commercial interests

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